Service Offerings for Couples
Unlock the Secrets to Emotional and Physical Intimacy
True intimacy comes when you have reached a place where both people feel safe enough to be vulnerable with each other without fear of judgment or losing connection.” - Unknown
But how do you reach this place?
Do you feel frustrated, unsatisfied, resentful, overwhelmed, or drained by your relationship? Does it seem like a mystery to solve?
Much like a thrilling detective story, a relationship is full of mysteries waiting to be uncovered. Especially where growing emotional and physical intimacy are concerned. Intimacy can feel scary and intimidating. We feel disconnected. From ourselves and our partners.
Even though we want more for ourselves, our partners, and our relationships, it can feel easier to stay silent. To deny our needs and desires. To keep things as they are because, well, we’re familiar with that. Especially when we’re afraid to have that conversation (you know the one…) because we fear defensiveness, rejection, criticism, judgment, invalidation, deflection, shame, or blame.
I get it. I’ve been there too. Communication can be so. Damn. Difficult.
We tell ourselves we don’t have the time or energy for intimacy. That we have so many real or perceived competing demands - work, family, children, friends, chores, hobbies. We neglect our relationship so things stay as they are because it’s easier.
At least for a while. When things stop feeling easy, we appease, disconnect, blame, criticize. Resentment builds. Sometimes we separate or divorce. We feel like victims of circumstance. And maybe we even have our own little pity parties. Ugh.
Or…maybe you’re ready for a different scenario?
Step into my Speakeasy
Imagine stepping into a speakeasy. Where the secret password is vulnerability. Where we gather together to unveil the mysteries of your relationship by uncovering the hidden layers that prevent you from experiencing the emotional and physical intimacy you crave. To brew up verbal concoctions held in a container of safety, love, curiosity, vulnerability, and empathy. So that you can build a foundation of trust and vulnerability where emotional and physical intimacy - the presence and connection - you so deeply desire can take root and grow.
To do this, I use the proprietary VITA™️ coaching methodology. “VITA” means Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach. It’s a transformational process with a holistic approach that blends modern science and coaching with the ancient wisdom of Tantra and Taoism. I love this methodology because it appeals to both my inner science nerd and my spirituality.
In addition to the VITA™️ methodology, I bring many other parts of myself in service to you and your intimacy goals: scientist, researcher, teacher, energy worker, witch, and shamanic practitioner. And tarot, astrology, and human design if you’re into that.
It’s time to level up your relationship and deepen your intimacy.
Ready to step into my Speakeasy?
Book your free Secret Rendezvous with me.
Together with your partner, we’ll gain clarity about your relationship intimacy goals and challenges. Then, we’ll brew up the right mixture of support for your relationship.
That might include a focus on practical communication skills or connection practices, facilitating healing or deconditioning, exploring erotic intimacy, a guided intimacy date, or a guided couples retreat to craft your shared relationship vision and intimacy goals.
The result?